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The Value of a Jewish Camp Experience

greencolorwarSMBy Dori Zvili
Director
Camp Milldale

I’ve spent every summer since I was five-years-old at camp. (Except for one summer I spent with my cousins in Israel when I was 13!) I loved being a camper; I loved the fun summers, the memories, the surprises, the friendships. I loved every camp job I have ever had: Counselor-In-Training, Junior Counselor, Senior Counselor, Sports Camp Counselor, Drama Counselor, Unit Leader, Assistant Director and Director.

But it was not until I became the Director of Camp Milldale, the day camp for the Jewish Community Center of Greater Baltimore, that I realized the true value of Jewish camp. Camp Milldale focuses on being a caring Jewish community. Jewish camp imparts Jewish values. The value of V’ahavtah L’reacha Kamocha, or “loving your fellow as yourself” is seen daily in every interaction, especially in those small moments.

I have learned that it’s the small moments that count the most…that I remember the most… that make me realize how lucky I am to be a camp director and to have the opportunity to give campers small moments that make a big, lasting impact.

How do I define “small moments?” A counselor holding a new camper’s hand walking to and from activities. A camper offering to trade popsicles because his friend likes the other flavor better. A specialist realizing that her activity is a camper’s favorite thing to do.  A camper learning to dive, or earning his first opportunity to go down the waterslide. All of these small moments make camp so special, so magical, and such an important part of growing up.

One of my most special small moments involved campers Jacob and Ira two summers ago. The two good friends were playing against each other in “gaga.” Ira was hit out of the game and was very sad about it. Jacob saw that his friend was upset and deliberately got himself out so that he could cheer up Ira. He sat down next to Ira, let him play with one of his action figures, and they both smiled and laughed. Jacob’s counselor told Jacob how proud he was of him, and Jacob replied (and I couldn’t make this up even if I wanted to), “I like dodge ball, but I like Ira better.” That is a small moment that makes a big impact.

We connect to the greater good. Camp Milldale strives to always have campers feeling good, but feeling good is not the same as DOING GOOD. Our focus on Tikkun Olum, or “repair the world” comes through in our every day activities like nature, Israeli culture, gardening, and cooking. This type of informal Jewish education is something in which campers connect.

David Mitnick, the Assistant Director of Camp Milldale feels, “A core Jewish value found at synagogues around the globe is the idea that learning never ends, and at Camp Milldale we feel that is true in an informal setting as well. At camp sing-a-longs, where campers sing songs from Israel’s independence to the latest Jewish Rock, Torah and Israel themes, it penetrates in a fun and inspiring way. Swim lessons fulfill the Torah requirement that we teach our children to swim. Swimming not only assists the child with independence, it also provides a life-saving skill. Camp is integral in providing these opportunities for our campers to grow and challenge themselves is a Jewish value that rests on our shoulders.”

The Foundation for Jewish Camping sums it all up best: “The impact of Jewish camp is immediate – campers return home connected to a community and friends that will last them a lifetime. And it doesn’t stop there. Children with pivotal Jewish camp experiences are more likely to become adults who value their Jewish heritage, support Jewish causes, and take on leadership roles in their communities.”

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Growing Up with a Sibling Who Has Special Needs

By Emily Hecht

For twenty-one years I have had a brother with High-Functioning Autism.  Some might say that having a sibling with any type of special need can be difficult, challenging, often times overwhelming, and even frustrating.  However, being a sibling to someone who has a disability can also be exciting, motivational, powerful, and stimulating.   I have experienced situations with my brother where I have felt all of those emotions, sometimes even at the same time.   I firmly believe that I have grown up very differently from other young adults who have not been raised with a sibling with disabilities.   Although I did all of the things that other children my age did, like play sports, participate in drama classes and go to camp, something was always different.

Unlike most boys, my brother hated sports and still does, probably because he could never tolerate physical contact, even a loving hug.  Most girls my age who were interested in sports spent hours playing outside with their older brothers; however, I did not because my brother preferred to stay inside and watch TV or play on the computer.  Most boys did not want to play imaginative games with their little sisters, but since I was interested in drama, I would enter my brother’s sometimes-imaginative world and we would act out scenes from movies or make up skits and scenarios.

Both my brother and I went to camp and for a long time we both went to Camp Milldale, where my brother was in the Inclusion program.  Although it was great that we  were able to go to the same camp, I constantly worried about him.   I worried if kids in his bunk were making fun of him; I worried if his counselors knew where he was.  I worried about everything.   Although not all of these situations were bad, I had very different experiences from other children my age, and they significantly shaped not only my early childhood but the present as well.

I feel as if my parents did an amazing job making sure that I received enough attention, felt comfortable in my own skin, and felt comfortable being open and honest with those around me about my brother.  Although it took some time, and it did not happen overnight, I truly see having a sibling with a disability as a blessing, and nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed by.  But developing these thoughts stems from the compassion and love my parents gave both to me and to my brother, and the individual attention and support I received throughout my childhood and young adulthood.  My parents anticipated how I might react in certain situations with my brother and my peers,  thought about what could be embarrassing or make me stand out, and they tried their hardest to make sure that I was always comfortable and never felt different or isolated from others, despite the constant differences I always experienced.

Growing up with a sibling with special needs has changed my life.  It has motivated me to dedicate my life to children with disabilities as I am currently pursuing a career in Occupational Therapy.  My love for my brother, his abilities and the special things about him that make him unique, as well as all of the children I have met through my pursuits and experiences,  have truly pushed me to devote my energy and passion in my life to children with special needs.

All the Things I Can Do, by Daniel Hecht>>

Jewish Disabilities Awareness Month, by Janet Livingston>>

THE ASSOCIATED for people with special needs>>

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